Episodes

Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Caregivers and Geriatric Services
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Tuesday Mar 29, 2022
Needing a Care Manager's support to navigate the healthcare system? Worried about your loved one’s health and well-being?
Concerned about managing the right type of care?
Jodi Kay Benusco calls the program and shares insights gleaned from years as a Social Worker and seasoned Inpatient Discharge Planner at a Level II inpatient hospital.

Sunday Mar 20, 2022
The Real Public Servants
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
On my recent broadcast, I discussed the term, "public servants" and the specific caregivers who really define that term.

Friday Mar 18, 2022
What a Difference You Made in My Life
Friday Mar 18, 2022
Friday Mar 18, 2022
Award-winning songwriter and two-time Grammy Nominee Archie Jordan called the show to discuss caregiving, music, his long friendship with BJ Thomas, and many more things in this special interview.
Some of the many hits from Archie include, What a Difference You Made In My Life, It Was Almost Like A Song, He's The Hand on My Shoulder, You Gave Me Love When Nobody Gave Me a Prayer ...and many more.
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Thursday Mar 10, 2022
The Obligation Trap
Thursday Mar 10, 2022
Thursday Mar 10, 2022
I must. I'm supposed to. I have to. I should.
When repeatedly hearing these words come out of your mouth, you might be caught in the obligation trap.

Tuesday Mar 01, 2022
Caregivers and the Wall of Noise
Tuesday Mar 01, 2022
Tuesday Mar 01, 2022
Noise bombards us every day. Traffic, 24-hour news, our mobile devices, and a host of other things forms a wall of sound that keeps many of us in a state of agitation. For caregivers, taking a moment to sit quietly and settle our hearts down seems nearly impossible. But if we don’t take time for stillness, we’re going to have to make time for illness.
The constant state of anxiety, stress, and sensory overload we experience as caregivers will eventually make us sick. Ask any health care professional about the long-term effects of stress. When’s the last time anyone ever touted the benefits of anxiety, high blood pressure, depression, skin rashes, or other stress-induced issues?
As caregivers, we modify our lifestyle to minimize the threat. We push back on stress by carving out time to be still and quiet. Prayer, meditation, or just clearing our racing thoughts helps re-boot our minds and hearts. Without any cost or even a prescription, regularly incorporating stillness in our lives allows us to be a little calmer – and a little healthier – in the caregiver storm we navigate.
The best cure for the body is a quiet mind. - Napoleon Bonaparte

Saturday Feb 26, 2022
Caregiving Versus Caregiver
Saturday Feb 26, 2022
Saturday Feb 26, 2022
Today's show features an opening monologue about Caregiving versus Caregiver. Also, a surgeon caught me by surprise with this question. Later on in the program, a special interview with one of the founders of crowd funders GIVE SEND GO, and a special song from Gracie.

Friday Feb 25, 2022
”We’ve Got This!”
Friday Feb 25, 2022
Friday Feb 25, 2022
The morning of the most extensive surgery my wife's ever faced, we both felt (understandably) a bit nervous. Sitting in the pre-op area, I observed a flurry of medical staff work efficiently to prepare Gracie for what would be a 9-hour surgery – and her 82nd operation (that I can count).
When the neurosurgeon arrived, I noticed a tangible enthusiasm about him. Clapping his hands together, he brightly looked at us while stating, "You ready to get this thing done!"
For maybe the first time in my 35 years as a caregiver, I felt a calmness and sense of safety with this man. As the surgeon exuded such self-confidence, I felt our anxiety melt away. He knew his job and shared his excitement, "I love doing this procedure- it helps so many people!"
Looking at me, he said, 'This will be a long day. Go rest in your hotel room and wait for my call. You don't need to hang out in the waiting room and stress yourself out. We've got this!"
Following his orders, I rested and waited for his call.
The surgery went well, and while slow, the recovery remains steady. Along the way, I learned to trust a bit more – and rest in the competence of others.
"You must trust and believe in people or life becomes impossible." - Anton Chekov
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